Yeah !! She's in ICU now and coherent enough to have given me and Duane directions back to the hotel. They gave her an epidural, so the only pain she is in is mild pain in her throat from being intubated. The surgeon did additional biopsies (as long as she was in there...) and they all came back clean! So no cancer in her body at all now and we all pray that it stays that way.
Thank you to everyone for your kind thoughts, wishes and prayers. It means a lot to Arl and to Duane.
Debbie for Arleen and Duane.
Hi everyone,
I just want to thank you for all your prayers and good wishes for my surgery tomorrow. I want to tell you how much I appreciate it.
Til next week when all this unknown is in the past.
Love to all,
Arleen
We have just finished settling into our new home away from home. At least it will be for Duane and my sister, Debbie. I will spend most of my time in the hospital.
We are staying at the StayBridge Suites at DIA. We have a direct phone line. Isn't that cool ! If any of you tried to call us at our last hotel, you know how difficult it was. So our new number is 303-583-1886. Our cell and home number still rings to our cell, but when we are at the hotel we can be reached at that number.
I am trying to rest up for Monday's surgery. Now that we are settled, I hope to get more rest.
I could use some help with a dilemma I am facing. I understand that they will make me start walking around as soon as I am out of the ICU. So, I don't want to be showing off my behind as I amble around the hospital. We are trying to figure out what to buy to wear on these outings. I need to be able to undo the shoulders so that my IV's stay in place. Pretty picture, huh? Any ideas would be appreciated.
Duane just volunteered to walk the hallways behind me. That could work.......
We just booked a hotel for the next month.......yeah!
Thank you all for trying to help. We spent 6 hours going from hotel to hotel today. We have a 2 bedroom suite. It is only 15-20 minutes to the hospital.
So, we will give you contact info when we have it.
Need to rest now.
Love to all,
Arleen and Duane
Just heard from the doctor. There is no other cancer in my body. Thank you for all your prayers.
So on Monday I will be going into surgery. It is MAJOR.
I expect to be in the hospital about 2 weeks. Then have rehab for 2 weeks. Then recovery for months. Because it is major, I can expect some sort of follow up complications, so we are not sure how long we will be staying in Denver.
We will start looking for an apartment later today, when we start breathing again.
So, sorry, more prayers are still needed.
Thank you again for caring. Duane will have to figure out how to email an update after surgery. It can take up to 14 hours, so don't expect anything on Monday or maybe even Tuesday.
With love and gratitude,
Arleen
Hi everyone,
I just got back to the motel. I had my procedures yesterday and they kept me overnght for pain management.
On Friday I went for 2 surgeries. For the first we had to check in at 5:30 am. What they did in that procedure was put a wire into the lymph node they are concerned about. They used a ct scan to find the node. That wire was left in so the next surgeon could find the right lymph node to cut out.
The second surgery was done around 1:30 pm. During the waiting time I could not move the bottom of my body. That was necessary so that the wire would stay in place. Alicia and Michelle, our daughters from Colorado Springs, came and kept Duane company during the procedures and visited with me when I got admitted. It was wonderful seeing them.
So here I am back at the motel. I feel OK. We are controlling the pain. As long as we do that, I am happy. We are both happy and VERY Tired.
We now await the biopsy result. The results are expected by Tuesday. We are hoping for a clear report so that we can go on to the next option. That is what to hope and pray for, an option.
Thank you for your prayer and wishes, and keep them coming.
Love to all,
Arleen and Duane
Hi again,
Got the call from the doctor this am. The cancer has returned. &!!#@&*@!
So they will remove a lymph node on the 20th, next Friday, and have it biopsied. Seems the 7 samples they took on Tuesday weren't good enough.
Once those results are in, they can present options to me. As you can imagine, none of the possible options are easy or have any guarantees.
So we are staying at the La Quinta until at least Sunday. (303-373-2525 rm 314) Maybe go to Blackhawk for a couple days before the preop on Thursday.
So that's all the news.
Just arrived in Denver, safely. Will post again after we visit with the doctors on Wednesday. We will be traveling toward home Wednesday night, if all goes well, and hope to be home on Thursday.
Til later
I forgot to mention that we went to Pie Town, NM. It is a spot on the road, NM 160, and basically has one store, Pie-o-neer. We stopped and had a piece of pie. Since we got there around 3pm there were only 3 kinds of pies left. We chose apple, pinion nut, pepper pie. Sounds very strange, but tasted delicious.
The owner and baker is one of the friendliest people I have ever met. She visits with every guest, not just saying hello, but sharing stories about your trip and her life.
Eating one slice of pie took about an hour. Great fun and I recommend it if you are in the area.
As you can see by the latest postings, we have been busy. When we haven’t been traveling we have been recovering from our travels. Maybe it is age, but we don’t have the stamina we used to.
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We are going to Denver tomorrow, where I will get my pet-scan on Tuesday and see the doctors on Wednesday. Then we set off for home.
We leave again on the next Thursday for the BIG adventure, if all goes well with the doctors.
Outside of Cimarron is a boy scout camp on 127,000 acres. A man named Phillips was one of the wealthiest men in the world around the turn of last century. He bought over 300,000 acres outside of Cimarron for his family to ranch. It had been a boyhood dream of his. He called it Philmont Ranch, Phil for his name and mont for mountain.
This is the house he lived in
Part of the scout camp. There are many permanent buildings, also.
There is a museum at he camp
In front of the museum is this replica of a rock found on the grounds.
Turns out not to be a rock, but a petrified mold of a dinosaur footprint. More interesting, yet, is that it is the only footprint of a Tyrannosaurus Rex ever found.
From the camp we went to the St. James Hotel in Cimarron.
Evidentially there are ghosts here, too. We didn’t see any, but we found these rules for Ghost hunters.
We were allowed to view the downstairs rooms. Current guests stay upstairs.
Since Cimarron was on the stage coach route between Denver (and other cities) and Santa Fe, many noteworthy people stayed at this hotel.
Many shootings took place at this hotel. One happened in room 6.
There are many bullet holes in the ceiling of the bar.
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Did I mention we have been following the Santa Fe Trail? No….well we have and here is proof.
After leaving Eagle Nest we entered this state park. We had traveled most of our trip in desert landscapes, then we entered the valley where Eagle Nest sits. Now we enter a green, tree filled valley with beautiful rock walls and streams. Very different, especially today after all the rain they have been having.
This drive was lovely.
While driving through the deserts of NM, we saw antelope. No pictures because we were always driving past them. But today we saw deer. The only time this trip. We laughed as we took this picture, since we see deer all the time at home.
This is the nice little cabin we stayed at last night. When we went to the office and then looked at the cabin, the owner told us the restaurant was only open for another 30 minutes, it was 7:30 after all. So it was OK with her if we went to eat first and finished checking in after.
When we walked into the bathroom, this is what we found. I made sure it was OK to take it. The owner said “That’s why we put it there.” Never got a rubber ducky before.
Eagle Nest Lake
At the restaurant, while we were waiting for dinner, our waitress, of about 15 years old, told us about the ghosts she has seen in the hotel, which used to be a bordello. She said she was too afraid to take us upstairs to see the rooms. So the bartender took us up.
She then spent almost an hour telling us her ghost stories.
The next morning that restaurant was closed so we went to a café down the street. The restaurant choices were easy to make since they were the only places open.
A sign on the door said their credit card machine was broken, but we weren’t worried, since we often have some cash. Well, when we went to pay, we were cash broke. No problem to them, they let us go back to the motel, pack up, check out and then come back and pay. Nice small town folks. The café was so full when we got there, that we joined a couple at their table for breakfast. They were locals and told us where to stop on our way through the canyon. When she asked where we were headed and we said Denver, she asked why. So I told her I was going for some medical tests. When she and her husband were done eating and were leaving, she came back to the table, made sure she had my name right and said she would have her church pray for me. Duane and I used a couple of tissues after that.
Another neat thing about this café was the signage.
This says:
10 years ago
We had Johnny Cash
Bob Hope and Steve Jobs
Now we have no Cash
No Hope and No Jobs
PLEASE
Don’t let Kevin Bacon Die !!!!!
On our way toward Colorado, we passed this state park. A man lost his son to the war and built this chapel on a hill and eventually dedicated it to all soldiers who were injured or lost their lives in Vietnam and donated it to the state of New Mexico
The little chapel
We are headed for a folk dance festival. Yesterday was our 20th anniversary. On our honeymoon we went to the second annual New Mexico folk festival outside of Cuba, at a girl scout camp. We thought it would be romantic to do the same thing again, at their 22nd annual event.
We arrived in Socorro, New Mexico right before 7pm, when dinner was to be over. We got directions to the campus of New Mexico School of Mines, but did not see any of the landmarks and streets we were supposed to see. So, just kept following the road we were on, and lo and behold, there was the campus, and they still had dinner available. So, everything worked out great.
Our dorm room was in the West Hall. Just your standard 2 bed dorm room. Oh, did I think this was going to be romantic……well it was in other ways.
During the day there were workshops. We mostly went to singing workshops. That surprised us, too. We thought we came mostly to dance, but we sang a lot. We learned a lot, too.
We did dance, in the evenings. The dancing we did is called contra dancing. Almost all the people there contra dance in there home towns. We were the exception, since Montrose doesn’t have contra dancing…….yet.
Contra dancing is done in lines with moves like square dancing. Each couple moves up or down the line, dancing with all the other couples in the line. It was wonderful fun and we did not mess up too much, and when we did mess up, someone always got us back in place.
The music we danced to was performed live by great bands. There was a talent show by the attendees. Surprisingly, there were some teens there. Sure would like to know how to get teens involved in square dancing in Montrose.
This band was our favorite. I will post their name when a remember it, or go out to the car, in the thunderstorm, to get the cd’s we bought.
Our singing class doing Cecilia at the talent show
The kids were doing the cup song. We have seen kids and adults with kids doing that many times. It is being done all over the world.
This is what the dance floor looked like each dance. You can see how much fun every one is having.
This array is a large group of telescopes collecting data from outer space. As you can see, the weather was not conducive to looking any closer.
Had to take this picture, since I can’t remember when I last saw a pay phone.
